The safest gift for a shoe lover is one with no size risk, such as socks, tights or jewelry that goes with the shoes they already wear. If you want to give actual shoes, pick a style that forgives half a size, like a mule or a buckled flat, and work out their size before you buy.
Most gift lists for this search are long lists of shoe-adjacent extras: a Jason Markk cleaning kit (about $15 to $30), coffee-table sneaker books, display boxes, and novelty keyrings. Many are written for sneaker collectors. This one is for someone who loves women's fashion shoes, sorted by budget, with a section on finding their size without spoiling the surprise.
Gift ideas for shoe lovers at a glance
| Budget | Gift | Size risk | Why it works |
|---|---|---|---|
| Under $20 | Split-toe socks, lace socks, sheer socks, tights, leg warmers | None to low | Changes how the shoes they already own look |
| Under $40 | Ear cuff, statement earrings, necklace, hair comb | None | Finishes an outfit built around a shoe |
| $50 to $70 | Mules, buckled flats | Low | Open backs and adjustable straps forgive a near miss |
| $70 to $90 | Statement heels, tabi shoes, boots | Medium | Only once you know their size |
| Bundle | Shoes plus socks plus one piece of jewelry | Depends on the shoe | A complete look in one box |
Is it OK to give someone shoes as a gift?
Yes, with two caveats. First, size. A pair that pinches is a pair that never gets worn, so either know the size for certain or choose a forgiving shape. Second, taste. Shoe lovers usually have a clear style, so look at what they wear most: black or color, flat or heel, minimal or decorated. Some people also avoid shoes as a gift for cultural reasons, so if you know that matters to the person, choose something else from the lists below.
Gifts for shoe lovers under $20
Socks and tights are the best low-risk gift for anyone who cares about shoes, because they change the look of every pair already in the closet. A sheer sock under a ballet flat or a ribbed sock with a loafer is how stylists make plain shoes look deliberate.
Ribbed Crew Tabi Socks
$14.99 crew socks with a divided toe, for the friend who already owns tabi shoes.
If they own split-toe shoes, regular socks bunch at the split. These sit flat. Three colors, one size.
Scalloped Lace Tabi Socks
$14.99 openwork lace with a scalloped cuff; pretty with ballet flats and mary janes.
Aeris Sheer Mesh Socks
$14.99 sheer mesh socks that go under almost any flat or loafer.
Bettina Knitted Leg Warmers
$19.99 ribbed leg warmers with a drawstring top, for the balletcore fan.
All of these are one size, so you only need to know the person's style, not their measurements.
Gifts for shoe lovers under $40
Jewelry is the other no-size gift. Someone who plans an outfit from the shoe up usually wants the earrings and necklace to match the mood. Our pieces are silver-tone with a darker, slightly gothic feel that pairs well with black shoes.
Wing Wrap Ear Cuff
$34.99 wing-shaped cuff that slides onto the ear, so no piercing is needed.
Because there is no piercing involved, an ear cuff is safe even if you are not sure which holes they have.
Seraph Angel Necklace
$28.99 cherub necklace with an aqua center and a pearl-like drop.
Jewelled Hair Comb
$28.99 vintage-style hair comb with three colored stones across the top.
See more in our dark jewelry edit.
Shoes under $70 that forgive a wrong size
If you want to give real shoes but are not completely sure of the size, choose a style that adapts. Backless mules leave room at the heel. Shoes with an adjustable buckle can be tightened or loosened. Avoid closed pumps and fitted boots unless you know the size for certain.
Belvra Buckle Mule Heels
$58.99 backless mule with an open square toe and a low block heel of about 4 to 5 cm.
An open toe and open back make this one of the most forgiving shapes we sell.
Buckled Mary Jane Flats
$48.99 pointed flat with an adjustable buckle strap, in sizes EU 35 to 42.
The buckle takes up a little extra length, and the wider size range covers more people.
Statement shoes under $90, once you know their size
When you know the size, you can give the shoe they would not buy for themselves. Split-toe tabi shoes are a common wish-list item, because the designer version from Maison Margiela costs about $995 for a flat (October 2026). Ours run $48.99 to $88.99.
Tavora Tabi Block Heel Mules
$78.99 split-toe mule on a mid block heel; the open back makes it easier to gift than a closed tabi.
If they wear tabi already, check our tabi sizing guide before choosing.
Margaux Woven Basket Bag
$68.99 structured woven basket bag; no size to get wrong.
How do you find out someone's shoe size without asking?
A few quiet methods, from most to least reliable:
| Method | How reliable | Tip |
|---|---|---|
| Check the inside of a pair they wear often | High | Note whether the label is EU, US or UK, and the brand |
| Look at an old shoe box | High | Boxes are usually kept in a closet and show the exact size |
| Trace an insole or a worn shoe | Medium | Measure the tracing in centimeters and compare with the size chart |
| Ask a partner, roommate or relative | Medium | Ask what size they buy in their favorite brand |
| Check past order emails you share | Medium | Only for accounts you are already allowed to see |
| Guess from height or clothing size | Low | Do not do this |
Then convert carefully. Our shoes are sized in EU numbers, and each product page lists the size range. If they are between sizes, a mule or a buckled flat is the safer choice than a closed pump. For width, our guide on how to measure foot width at home explains the paper-and-ruler method.
Care tips to include with the gift
A small care note makes a shoe gift feel considered. Smooth vegan leather and patent wipe clean with a damp cloth. Satin should be spot cleaned only. Vegan suede needs a soft brush. Socks and tights last longer washed in a mesh bag on a cool cycle. Our guide to cleaning vegan leather shoes covers more.
Gift kits, designer shoes and ours
A cleaning kit from Jason Markk is a good gift for a sneaker collector, and designer shoes from Maison Margiela are an obvious wish-list piece if your budget allows. For a fashion-shoe lover who wears black, likes a little edge and would enjoy something unusual, ours sit in between: vegan shoes from $37.99 to $108.99, socks from $11.99 and jewelry under $35. Orders over $90 ship free. Before you buy, check our FAQ page for exchange and return terms, and send the receipt along so the size can be changed if needed.
Frequently asked questions
What do you buy someone who loves shoes?
Socks, tights or jewelry that go with the shoes they already own are the safest. If you know their size, a statement pair they would not buy for themselves.
Is it rude to give shoes as a gift?
Not in most places. The bigger risk is the wrong size, so choose a forgiving style or confirm the size first.
How can I find out someone's shoe size secretly?
Check the label inside a pair they wear often, find an old shoe box, or ask someone close to them which size they buy.
What is a good gift for a shoe lover under $20?
Split-toe socks, lace socks, sheer socks or leg warmers. They are one size and change how existing shoes look.
Which shoes are safest to give if I'm not sure of the size?
Backless mules and flats with an adjustable buckle, because they tolerate a small difference in length.
What should I give someone who already owns tabi shoes?
Split-toe socks, which are hard to find in stores, or a second tabi in a different shape, such as a mule or loafer.
Read next
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Browse one-size gifts in our tights and socks collection.